Posted under: American history, GLBTQ, Gender, happy endings, students, women's history
Yes, I know: what a predictable headline. But, it was irresistable! Today’s blog post is a letter to all of the single college ladies, especially those of the heterosexualist persuasion. Thanks to reader Indyanna and Tenured Radical for alerting me to this, and asking me to weigh in!
Dear undergraduate women,
You may have heard all of the buzz about the “new math” on college campuses where women undergraduates outnumber the men. I’m here to tell you that this is a manufactured “problem.” I went to a women’s college, where undergraduate men were outnumbered by 100%. Even if you include the co-ed college with which we had a cooperative relationship, the numbers were approximately 70 to 75 percent women to 30 or 25 percent men. And yet, this “imbalance” rarely came up as a topic of conversation. There were women who always had boyfriends. There were a lot of women who had girlfriends. (Some had both boyfriends and girlfriends.) And yet, most people–male and female alike, bi and gay as well as straight–were unattached: interested in romance, but more interested in the other things that we did in college. Some of those things were intellectual–but only some were. Other things were artistic and creative, others were journalistic or political, and of course, a lot were just plain silly. (For example: menthol cigarettes, diet Dr. Pepper mixed with rum, streaking on the green or skinny dipping in the tiny fountain in the cloisters, and reading Walt Whitman and Radclyffe Hall, just to name a few examples.) Continue Reading »






